Like my favorite social media personality “Price Ea” once said, relationship are like bird, when you hold on too tight it sometimes die and too slightly it slips away.
Sometimes first love break up, are the once that hurt the
most, the resultant effect is great fear or better still the scare that grip us
to fall in love again.
Even when we do, most times we never actually give out all our
self to love and be loved as the scar of the previous base on paranoid state of
not certain if this present is for real or not. This is also dangerous. It may
gradually lead to it sleeping away depend on how observant both or any of the
two party detect fast and fix up.
It is commonly believed that in a relationship with someone
who has had a previous bad breakup, the new love tend to suffer the most as
there is likeliness of been taken for granted, all because we remain prisoner
of the past and not letting go and most time this inform our subconscious mind
and get registered that hence the general believe by the other party that this
too may not last or be worse than the first. Amazing expectations isn’t it?
Have you ever consider however, that if after your horror
movie kind of past, God one way or the other just brought an Angel to your life
and your wish were just met or prayers answered, would things still be the way
they are?
What if the present is the one meant to heal your damaged
heart but you hold too slightly and it slipped away, afterward go back to
the shores picking stones and Dipping your legs in the river banks while you
had ignore a diamond over picking stones!
I will close with a word from “Anthony Robbins” Do what you
did in the beginning of a relationship (reflect, flashback think on them) and
there won’t be an end.
for it is easy to hate and its difficult to love genuinely,.this is how the whole scheme of things works, all good things are difficult to achieve and bad things are very easy to get.
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